I've had a couple of people send me messages and ask about my stalker.  I wasn't sure what I could tell you about him.. but this is what I feel most comfortable saying.

You may not know I have a stalker, not in the classic I'm standing outside of your window stalker.. but more in the line of I'm going to go through all your photos on Facebook, read your blog, then comment about what kind of a person I think you are, have my ex baby mama come to where you are eating lunch and have her stare at you while she walks by the table a couple of times… not to mention my personal favorite.. having some woman scream at you in Wal-Mart because you kidnap children.  (yes that's what she said)

Normally that wouldn't bother me, but this guy has 22 different criminal cases against him in the last 15 years.  His most recent case he beat a woman in his front yard, sat on her chest and choked her.. while his children watched.  He's a really great guy..  :/  

I went to court for a restraining order; when the judge asked if I wanted to go to trial, I offer this person a way out… I said: I don't want to go to trial, I would just like Mr __________ to leave me and  this minor child alone.  I have never spoken to this man in person and I would like to drop this if he agrees to leave us alone.  There was a large pause in my statement, thinking he would agree with it.  He said; I'm ready for trial your honor.  

If you pray, I would appreciate your prayers.  If you believe in the power of positive thinking.. I would take that too!