So…. about 20 days ago I sold an item to a Canadian buyer… this wasn't an auction.  It was a BUY IT NOW. The buyer, who has over 100 feedback made an offer on the item, and I accepted.  Some how I forgot or over looked that she hadn't paid.  I opened an unpaid item case, and received a message from her that says: "Hello, can you wait a few days for payment?  If not then can u cancel this one and I will buy another. Thanks"   TWENTY DAYS since she bought the item… and she needs me to wait even longer for payment?  Twenty days isn't long enough?